"Embarking on the Journey: A 10 Step Roadmap to a Joyful Life"
1- Thoughts
Separate yourself from your thoughts. You are NOT your thoughts. Think of them as another person talking to you. You can accept other people's opinion of you or you can ignore them (tell them off even)! #thoughts
2- Encourage Yourself
When you don't like and want to ignore what that person told you create thoughts that support what you want to feel, think and do. #encourageyourself
3- Be Unique
You are #unique and one of a kind. When you feel like you want to copy someone else's lifestyle remember that there is someone somewhere that would love to have what you have. Don't believe me? Maybe you need a #trip to some countries where they have no water, jobs or a bed to sleep tonight. Whenever I start forgetting to appreciate what I have I go down the memory lane when I traveled to India as a kid and I saw other kids begging for #money and had no water to drink while I was on a long drive with my parents to go to a very expensive #Zoo. #beunique Sometimes we need a 10 step roadmap to a joyful life, maybe we need a mentor or someone who tells us how things really are so that we open our eyes.
4- Get ready for your #dream!
Everyone wants more money, more properties, the perfect relationship and a healthy body!
So let me ask you, what will you do if tomorrow you have a whopping 200,000 £ in your bank account? Or you are offered a #property? or you find your #dream person tonight? Or you have a 100% healthy body?
Will you know how to manage that money before you spend it all? Will you know how to invest it? Will you know how to treat your dream person so that they never ever think about leaving you? Do you know how you are going to use your healthy body? Will you go on runs or ride the bike or go hiking?
Do you have plans at all? If you don't then you are not ready to receive it yet. #getready #richmindset #ownyourlife
5- Your circle
Look around you - Are you surrounded with people that help you grow and see the best in you Remember that you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.
If you are not growing and achieving your dreams...then with all due respect you NEED to change your circle.
6- You
In order to achieve your #goals you first need a stable #mindset, you need to LOVE YOURSELF, love everything about you! Your #body, your thoughts, your current #life, your job, your #lifestyle and your free time. Love being by yourself. Why? Because when you LOVE YOURSELF and don't need other people's approval of you ...You are ready to start achieving your goals. You will start thinking about what you want in life and having ideas of how to achieve them because you no longer need anyone else besides YOU! It's almost like #meditation .
7 - Being Afraid
Are you afraid of what other people will think of you when they learn about your ideas and aspirations? Are you afraid they will think you are "different" ? Well let me tell you everyone thought Einstein was crazy! But in reality the ones who were crazy were the ones calling him crazy.
Just because other people can't seem to understand your vision you shouldn't be discouraged by it - on the contrary you should keep going and show them the result.
Once the result is there, the same people will be your fans! JUST DON'T GIVE UP - Everyone has something to offer in this world and if everybody is too afraid to be that person, there will be no more uniqueness in the world. #shame #afraid #encouragement
8- Time
You have that business idea but you just don't have time!
See we don't need to be perfect at all times and have the perfect schedule to fit everything. Maybe you have 10 minutes before bed or 20 minutes before dinner time.
Maybe you need to #sacrifice a bit of your time with #family to invest that same time for a better future for your family, maybe you need to #clean the house less or watch less #Netflix for a while!
If you see it as an #investment you will find the time. - It all depends on HOW MUCH you want it.
9- What if
Now this is one of my favorites! It works with all areas of life and it's the worst one!
What if he/she doesn't like me?
What if I don't succeed?
What if people laugh at me?
What if I don't get that job?
When your brain starts doubting in you, reply as follows:
What if they do like me? Even if 3 out of 10 people like me it's really good!
What if I do succeed? Success is a journey not a destination
"First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you , then you win." - Mahatma Gandhi
What if you do get it?
SO TRY! IF YOU WANT SOMETHING YOU NEVER HAD YOU MUST BE WILLING TO DO SOMETHING YOU NEVER DID!
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